Homeschooling?
How Do I Cope?

Answers to common questions about how to cope with homeschooling a large family with a baby and a home business.

I am often asked how I cope with the demands of homeschooling four older children with baby, as well as managing my home and my home businesses.

Here are some replies to questions I received by email:

Reading your email today, I was reminded that you're a mommy of 5! May I ask what that's like? I've been so broody for another baby, but am scared that 3 is too much for me to handle, never mind 5.

I believe that God gives us the grace and capacity to cope with what we have when we need it. I could not have coped with homeschooling 5 when I had 2, but I didn't need to! In His wisdom he gives them to us one at a time so that we can adapt and learn to cope with the demands.

There is a saying that says: God does not call the equipped, but he equips the called. He has called us to be moms and homemakers and will equip us to do that. As he blesses us with children He also provides for those children's needs.

How do things change with each new arrival?

How do you manage to homeschool four with a baby?

I tend not to be a schedule person when it comes to my babies. I demand feed and let them sleep whenever they want to for as long as they want to. ...so if baby is awake I usually sit and read to the others while I feed him. Meghan (14) does most of her homeschooling work alone and Lucy (7) often has to do her phonics and maths alone, just asking for help when she needs it. The other two are only 5 and 3, so they play as much as they like and do 'school' as much as they choose. (My 3 year old LOVES colouring in.)

The lack of a feeding schedule/sleeping schedule makes it difficult for me to do anything without lugging baby along, which is the sacrifice I have to make. I can't make plans for anything at a certain time when baby will be asleep, because it is not always a set time...and for the same reason I can't be involved in much activity outside the home. I turned down an offer to join a book club for Christian mommies just recently.... we have to sacrifice for a season, especially if we are homeschooling.

We also never keep quiet to accommodate a sleeping baby. From birth the baby sleeps wherever we are in the carrycot or pram. I figure that for 9 months in the womb the baby heard all the noise of our busy homeschooling life, so why be quiet now!

Other logistics that have changed - I now do laundry every single day, sometimes more than one load a day, but I am training Meg(14) to take over this job completely - even the ironing. (I try to buy clothes that don't need much ironing.)

I have had to become better at meal planning as you well know by now [I published two e-books/menu planners:
Prepared to Cook and A Joy to Cook] and I often cook double quantities so that I can quickly defrost a meal if there is a crisis near supper time...like we get home late or baby is cranky and needs a feed when I should be cooking!

Training children in good habits and discipline is ongoing, whether there are 1, 2 or 5 and whether you are homeschooling or not. It remains challenging....and as you probably know, self-discipline on the mom's part is where it begins!

Also read Homeschooling with Babies and Toddlers


I'd love to hear from you what it's like, as well as how you cope with homeschooling and make it work.

These are things that I do because I love to do it, so like anything you love, somehow you just find the time to squeeze it into your day. If it did not give me pleasure, I wouldn’t do it.

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Generally, I work in the evenings after my children have gone to bed, but you will catch me at my computer often during the day too, answering emails, doing online ordering and banking etc. Some days it is a struggle to limit the time I spend here (at the pc) and sometimes it is my escape to the adult world!

Since my husband works from home, we see each other often enough, so he doesn't mind me spending time working in the evenings. It also gives him time to unwind and do what he enjoys, without feeling guilty!

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