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The Whole Child, Issue #90 Protect Your Girls' Girlhood
November 01, 2012
Protect Your Girls' Girlhood
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Everywhere I look in our culture, I see little girls being promoted as sexual objects:
On Facebook I have acquaintances flaunting photos of their daughters in sexy poses - beautiful girls being groomed for beauty pageants...but what else are they learning?
On YouTube you see find 7 year olds wearing lingerie, shaking their booty in sultry hip-hop dances.
On kids cartoon movies, the heroines are all sexy long-legged, Barbie look-alikes and even the little girls have tiny waistlines and budding breasts.
Then you get the padded bras and g-string underwear and swimming costumes aimed at 7-10 year olds...and T-shirts with slogans like "hot chick", "flirt" and "future trophy wife"!
What are we thinking?
What happened to little girls being innocent little girls?
"Research links sexualization with three of the most common mental health problems of girls and women: eating disorders, low self-esteem, and depression or depressed moods." (1)
Persistent exposure to media images that sexualize girls affects how girls perceive femininity and sexuality.
"Girls who more frequently consume mainstream media tend to accept sexual stereotypes that depict women as sexual objects. They also place appearance and physical attractiveness at the centre of a woman's value." (2)
Why have parents uncritically accepted these sexually immoral messages marketed at their children?
Are we completely numb and desensitized to what is happening?
I found the following information quite alarming:
"Everyone knows something about Barbie, the most famous doll in the world. Big-breasted, narrow waisted and long legged, SHE HAS HELPED SEX INTRUDE INTO CHILDHOOD...Several decades ago, Barbie's creator, Ruth Handler, saw a Swiss doll called Lilli, voluptous, wearing heels. She was just what Ms Handler wanted for a blockbuster new doll. Ignoring traditional marketeers - shocked by Barbie's breasts - she began an uphill battle in California to manufacture this sexy creature, so unlike cuddly baby dolls. What she did not know, was that Lilli was BASED ON A PROSTITUTE IN A GERMAN ADULT CARTOON AIMED AT MEN." (The Economist - 05/05/2007)
"But, whereas the German Lilli is rather a - how can I say it delicately - strumpet*, her American twin, Barbie, is the wholesome girl next door - if you ignore her ‘teenage’ 36-26-36 measurements and her sleek, Cleopatra-type exotic eyeliner. Handler named the American bombshell doll - who walked into American history wearing nothing but a sexy black-and-white one-piece swimsuit - after her daughter, Barbara." (3)
(*Strumpet = A female prostitute or a promiscuous woman.)
..so half the world gives their daughters a doll modeled on a prostitute as a role model!
..and then we dress up our little girls like mature teens, with padded bras and thongs in T-shirts with flirty slogans and we call it "cute".
We teach our girls that their value lies in their sex appeal and then we freak out when they have issues related to body image, low self-esteem, are not respected or worse, are violated!
Women and girls need real protection and respect. Let's promote innocence, rather than the opposite.
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Sometimes life forces us to make hard choices - choices like choosing to earn a living or be at home for the family? I feel so blessed to be able to do both, and I so wish that other little kiddies could have their moms at home with them, that I regularly share how you can start an online business by building a website, like I did.
Jasmine’s Place, Issue No. 2 is out! This new, inspirational, free-to-view, online magazine is packed full of inspirational stories and features, which express Biblical and wholesome themes, to uplift and encourage women.
This issue also features healthy tasty recipes from Joanna Faillace, TV Host of Super-Naturally Healthy Kids as seen daily on TBN's Smile of a Child Television Network, beautiful fair trade jewellery from Created Gifts (part of Tearfund), wonderful charities to support and be supported by, and more.
The Children’s Book Club, a regular feature of the magazine, returns with reviews of some great books to share with your little ones!
Every page is wrapped in some extra special love just for you!
Jasmine’s Place - reaching upwards, reaching outwards … put up your feet and enjoy it at http://issuu.com/jasminesplace/docs/issue_no._2
Gross Motor Skills
Using wool or string, create circles of about 50cm diameter on the floor. Tell your child to pretend that these are lily pads and she must jump from one to the other without touching the water inbetween them. Space them about 30cm apart at first but gradually space them further apart as she improves at the game.
Fine Motor Skills
Draw some shapes such as squares, circles and triangles for your child to cut out using safety scissors. Encourage him to cut around an entire shape in about 45 seconds and also ensure that he learns to rotate the paper as he cuts each side of the shape.
Use a white-board marker to draw two different shapes on a pegboard. Let your child set out the pegs first to make the one shape, then remove them and then she must create the other shape. This teaches visual figure ground distinction.
Using a set of UNO cards, teach your child to recognize the numbers and colors. If he is old enough, teach him to play the card game.
Play your child the following pieces of classical music and ask him to talk about it. Ask them to listen carefully and see if it makes them think of an animal as sounds of horses' hooves can be heard. What pictures does the music bring to mind? What actions or movements does it inspire?
Read the following verses to your children and then have a discussion with them about what they mean. First ask the children to tell you what they understand and how those verses can be applied in their lives, before you start 'preaching' to them!
Romans 16:19 "I want you to be wise about what is good and innocent about what is evil."
1 Corinthians 10:11 "Everything is permissible" - but not everything is constructive."
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